I have a love-hate relationship with decluttering. For the most part, I find it cathartic and rewarding since cleaning out my space helps me breathe better and think more clearly. On the other hand, it seems to be a never-ending process due in part to my shameless consumerism. For every item I get rid of, another one seems to take its place within a few months.
It’s for this reason that J. Money’s recent post highlighting his decluttering trick really resonates with me. Asking “Would I buy this again?” removes all other considerations and elicits an immediate “yes” or “no,” making the decision to keep or donate much easier. As a serial declutterer (not a word, I know), I’m always looking for new ways to amp up my cleaning routine. In addition to J’s sound advice, I discovered another strategy earlier this week.
Ultimately, my husband would like to own a bit of land and have a small home on the property. This is a BHAG and definitely not something we’re seriously considering right now, but it did get me thinking about the process of selling a home. It’s a big pain to be sure, but it’s a pretty awesome exercise in decluttering. Faced with the prospect of moving, items are suddenly stripped of their sentimental value and evaluated purely on the ease in which they can be transported and setup in a new space. This discerning eye doesn’t extend to the truly meaningful stuff like family photos and heirlooms, but that weird oil painting you purchased a lifetime ago (looking at you, J!)? Yeah, that one’s not making the cut.
So, another question might be, would you bring it with you if you moved? The more stuff you move, the more money it costs, and the more time it takes to get unloaded and moved into your new place. Knowing this, many of us host epic yard sales and sell or donate as much unnecessary crap as possible just to avoid the expense and hardship of having to move it.
After making this revelation, I looked at my space with fresh eyes. If I were to move today, what would I bring with me? Better yet, if I were to show my home today to prospective buyers, what items might they perceive as clutter? This gets complicated since most experts suggest you de-personalize your space so home buyers can see themselves in your house. However, I was amazed by how quickly my perception of my home changed using this approach. Suddenly, certain things stood out as just taking up space, and the desire to purge my home of them was overwhelming. I’ll have to do it in steps, otherwise my husband will come home to an empty space and a crazed, clutter-slaying wife.
How do you approach decluttering?